Okay, maybe some do and some don't. But it's so relaxing when everything is calm and there's no noise. As I watch people every day, I realize that many, probably most, people feel uncomfortable with silence. Take the average kid in school, for example. If I go to work and tell any kid to be quiet, he/she will be talking or making noise in the next couple minutes. Some people need to listen to music or make noise every time they are in a car alone because they can't stand the silence. Some people need to listen to something while they walk or exercise because they don't like the silence. There isn't anything wrong with doing these things. But when there's constant noise, any room for thinking or for learning how to sit in quietness and enjoy it, disappears. Teenagers and adults can't even sit with their friends without needing some noise. They don't know how to appreciate the presence of another person. This is very saddening to me. Quietness is a treasure - something that needs to be appreciated, not something that needs to be replaced or filled. How can we sit quietly and love being in God's presence if we can't even turn of noise for half an hour? How can we hear God speak to our hearts?
Dear friend, if you're used to constantly filling quietness in your life with noise, I challenge you to examine why you are doing so. Is it because you don't want to be alone with your thoughts or you don't like silence? Perhaps this coming new year would be a good time to work on changing. I've been listening to this song a lot recently. Click here to listen if you're viewing this post on email.
Since screens are in almost every kid's face nowadays, they're being taught (even if it's inadvertently) that silence is bad. Many years ago when I started working with children, I noticed that some parents start teaching this idea to their kids as babies. Parents turn on noise, mostly "white noise" machines in their baby's room during nap time and night sleep, thinking that it calms the kid and helps him sleep better. To me, this just creates a bad habit for the child. Yes, some noise can be helpful to babies in calming them. However, many parents use "white noise" consistently every single day for years. Even once the child reaches pre-teen years, he still needs to sleep with a noise machine else he can't fall asleep. It creates an unnatural sound environment. Think about it. In life there's an ebb and flow of sound. Life is not always noisy, nor is it always quiet. Even in nature. Scientists have researched and written about the need for quietness for our bodies. It's good and necessary for our brains, hearts, and souls.
My friend, may you desire God's presence this year.
And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever. ~ Isaiah 32:17