Tuesday, August 12, 2025

A Weekend Visit with the Bestie

 Lauren and I are sisters by chance, but friends by choice, and we are besties. I know people love to throw around this word bestie, and some people say they have a bunch. We have only one best friend in this whole world, and it's each other. As she said, this was a short trip, but full of the moments you carry forever. We engaged in deep conversations and laughed until our stomachs hurt. We're not twins, but might as well be because we think almost the exact same on every topic possible.
Thursday (8/7) we ate delicious food at our favorite international market.
Being with her means we try new random things. These are Chinese custard buns.😄
Friday we visited Fort Caroline and Kingsley Plantation. Fort Caroline was a 16th-century French colonial settlement. It was established in 1564 by French Huguenots under leadership of Rene Goulaine de Laudonniere. It served as a refuge for French Protestants fleeing religious persecution and a foothold for France in the new world.
That log in the picture below was used for a canoe.
The fort
This exhibit symbolizes the French Colonist's quest for religious freedom and a desire to improve their lives. 
We walked a trail through the woods and mosquitoes at the fort, then drove on to Kingsley plantation.
Before the 1800s, blue dye came from the indigo plant. It grows between 4-6 ft. high and it was grown on this plantation between the 1760s and 1780s during the British period. The greatest toll of growing indigo was on enslaved people. The heat, smell, and insects were terrible, not to mention the exposure to the chemicals on the skin and in lungs was deadly over time. 
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The walls and floor in this room are made of tabby, an oyster shell concrete. Tabby is fire resistant and durable. It's ideal for a heavily used area and it holds temperature well. 
The second floor is where the masters would've stayed.
Fascinating to read about Anna Kingsley's history as a slave and slave owner. 
Africans were forced to migrate to the plantations of the American South to do the labor that drove the Atlantic world economy. Commerce in North American and Europe depended on a triangular trade of goods that included human trafficking of slaves. 
While Florida was under Spanish rule, free blacks were regarded as citizens and had privileges. When Fl. became a territory, new laws discriminated against black people, both free and enslaved. Legal discrimination continued in various forms from the plantation era through mid 1900s. 
No. 3 was an act to amend the act entitled "An act concerning marriage license." It said "that all white male persons, resident within this territory who shall attempt to intermarry or who shall live in a state of adultery or fornication with a negro, mulatto, quarteroon, or other female, shall be liable to indictment."
Freedom is easy to take for granted - until it's lost. Once lost, it's also easy to define what is missing. Slavery is the ultimate loss of all freedoms - rights, choices, and control. 
Acts of 1840 include laws prohibiting selling firearms to blacks.
Acts of 1828 include prohibiting free blacks from moving into the Fl. territory.
Acts of 1832 include outlawing of interracial marriage, punishment increased for crimes and misdemeanors, and new tax put on freed slaves.
Acts of 1826-27 include punishment for blacks using abusive language.

Imagine looking out at these windows at slaves working. 😥Reading all these signs shows me a bunch of hypocrisy in the white people during this time. Punishment for sins such as bad language for the black people but not for the whites? That's disgusting. Also the ban on interracial marriage is abominable. Visiting this plantation makes me angry at this sin and injustice of slavery. It's the saddest thing. 
Lauren in her natural element reading signs. 😂Just kidding. That's my natural element. I made her read them because we can't visit such a place and miss all the history. lol
Planter John McQueen built the original portion of the house with the use of enslaved craftsmen and laborers. It was designed to catch the ocean breezes for the comfort of the owner's family. 
A dock used to bustle with activity here during the plantation era. Cotton bales were sent to market, and slaves and finished goods were brought here by boat. Most plantations were located along inland waterways because the easiest access to the Atlantic Ocean was through coastal ports. Planters used smaller boats on inland waterways to transfer supplies and human cargo to Fort George Island.
Sample quilt
Then of course we had to eat Chashu buns and drink milk tea while watching a C-drama at our favorite restaurant. At this point, it's a traditional habit. 😂
And of course we always have to hang out with our dear sister Jan. 
This was a very bittersweet time because new changes are coming. I know many adults don't have a best friend, but I'm super thankful I do. 😊

Monday, August 11, 2025

Goodbye July

 
July was a SUPER FUN month. A separate post is coming with an exciting adventure. :)
I LOVE my job. These girls are pure delight to hang out with. On the left is Reagan and the right is Riley. Reagan loves reading and mythology so we've had very interesting discussions about Greek/Roman mythology and the Bible and salvation. Pray for her and Riley that they'll accept Jesus into their heart and that they'll come in contact with more Christians. 
Met a new dear sister in Christ. Lisa loves Jesus so much, is growing in the Lord, and spending time with her encourages my heart immensely. I've never met someone like her - we share the same thoughts on many topics.
Met up with Charlotte at her job. 💕
Teaching my Chilean students online continues.... It's so fun and they crack me up continuously.😅
My favorite place 

One of my clients blessed and brightened my day with this sweet gift. 
My best friend visited. She enriches my life more than she'll ever know. We go to our favorite place, Iso Iso Ramen, each time she comes because they have the.best.mango.milk tea you'll ever taste. It's hard to find great mango milk tea; Iso Iso makes it the best and their chashu buns are spectacular.
We tried out a bunch of their drinks while watching a Chinese drama. 😊
Jan is a dear sister friend who I met at church last year and we bonded immediately. She's a true gem and has taught me so much about God and life. We went to Tsaocaa one evening and it's the cutest little place.
Asians are so big into these claw machines - it cracks me up. 
Mango yogurt drink

I'm thankful for the friendships God has blessed me with. He knows what we need at what time, and sometimes people come into your life to stay forever and sometimes stay for a little while then leave. I want to remember these days and these people. Treasure the moments and the days you have now. Don't always be so focused on the next thing or the future that you don't value the times right now. Cherish the people God blesses you with now because he might take them away or take you away from them.

How was your month of July in this year of 2025?

June Recap

 A little behind, but better late than never, right? 
Here's a short picture recap of June. 
I was swimming at the beach and it was so neat to watch the sky go from this (above) to this storm (below). Of course, we Floridians all keep swimming in the rain until the very last second when it starts thundering and sand blows everywhere. hehe😄
My best friend, Lauren, and I. 
My oldest sister got married and we were both bridesmaids. 
Lauren, I, and a lady from the church made the flower bouquets. They turned out beautiful! 
Other decorations
The bride
I love this picture of her.
That's it for the recap. I didn't take a whole lot of pictures this month and it was mostly full of work. :)  What did the month of June hold for you? Leave a comment! 

Saturday, August 9, 2025

Proverbs 30

 Two things have I required of thee; deny me them not before I die: Remove far from me vanity and lies: give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with food convenient for me: Lest I be full, and deny thee, and say, Who is the LORD? or lest I be poor, and steal, and take the name of my God in vain. ~ vs. 7-9
These verses teach us a lot. In fact, I have made them my prayer many times. 
It starts off with a sincere, humble plea showing more spiritual concern than material interest.  The first request is for removal of vanity and lies. Vanity can be emptiness, hollowness, or things that distract from truth or godliness. Lies could be personal deceit or influence of falsehood from others. Cultivate honest speech, honest dealings, and an honest heart. 
The second request is to give neither poverty nor riches, but to give convenient food. Extremes are dangerous, and the writer wisely avoids them in this passage. He even gives the reason. 
⇾ Abundance can cause a person to forget God and lead to pride, arrogancy, and self-dependency. In Deuteronomy 8:10-14, Moses warned Israel that abundance can lead to forgetfulness of God. "...when thou hast eaten and art full.... beware lest thou forget the Lord..."
Riches can also blind us to spiritual need. Revelation 3:17 says of the Laodicean church, "Because thou sayest, I am rich and increased with goods, and have need of nothing...and knowest not that thou art wretched..."

⇾ Poverty can tempt a person into sinful desperation, bringing dishonor to God's name. Taking God's name in vain goes far beyond than just using his name as a curse word. In fact, just as dangerous is a person who says he's a Christian but misrepresents God through his life. Unbelievers watch closely, listen, and scrutinize Christians, and they pick up on inconsistencies like nothing else. I know no one is perfect nor can anyone live a perfect life, but we can live holily as God commands us to; and we should be striving every single day to be transformed more like Jesus so that unbelievers will want Jesus too. It breaks my heart when unsaved people tell me how a "Christian" treated them poorly or how this "Christian" they know committed a horrible sin. It turns them away from God, and yes, they will be responsible to God for their response, but we Christians will also be responsible for how we live. Are you living the gospel? Or are you taking God's name in vain with your life? 
Remember: your walk talks way louder than your talk talks. 
Back to the passage, the writer avoids the 2 extremes by asking God to give him convenient food. Each one of us are in a different situation, and God knows each one. He knows what's convenient for me, and what's convenient for you. Don't mistake me: I'm all for making the most amount of money, investing, etc. But I believe we should actively seek a balanced life. 
Seek contentment and dependence on God. Ask him for what is sufficient. We don't need stockpiles. We need daily reliance on God.  
We see this lesson throughout the Scriptures. In Exodus, God provided a certain measure of mana day by day to teach the people to trust him. 
Lamentations 3 teaches us that God gives us new mercies every day. He sustains us one day at a time. 
In Matthew Jesus says to "Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof."
And
"Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?"
And in 1 Timothy...
“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.”
And in Philippians 
"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry...

No matter the situation in life, we need to learn contentment. Looking ahead to the next thing is dangerous because 1. we miss treasuring the moments here and now and 2. we think the next thing or situation in life will bring us happiness/satisfaction. In reality it doesn't because we haven't learned to be content with our current lot. Take comfort in knowing that God knows what we need and what is convenient for each person. And if God takes care of the sparrows, he definitely takes care of his children. 💕